enhance(actions): improve matrix job titles, bump actionslib (#39485)

Bump actionslib to v1.3.0 and format matrix job titles like GitHub.

- Matrix values are listed in declaration order, nested arrays and
objects are flattened, null and empty values are skipped
- Expression-evaluated names are trimmed and fall back to the job ID
when blank
- Matrix `include` and `exclude` match keys case-insensitively and
coerce numbers like GitHub

| Matrix | Before | After |
|---|---|---|
| `v: ["a,b"]` | `job (a,b)` | `job (a,b)` |
| `v: ["a, b"]` | `job (a, b)` | `job (a, b)` |
| `v: [[a, b]]` | `job ([a b])` | `job (a, b)` |
| `os: [x], arch: [y]` | `job (y, x)` | `job (x, y)` |
| `v: [{t: a, p: "b,c"}]` | `job (map[p:b,c t:a])` | `job (a, b,c)` |
| `v: [{t: a, p: [b, c]}]` | `job (map[p:[b c] t:a])` | `job (a, b, c)`
|

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Co-authored-by: Zettat123 <zettat123@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: bircni <bircni@icloud.com>

go.mod

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ require (
 	connectrpc.com/connect v1.21.0
 	gitea.com/lunny/dingtalk_webhook v0.0.0-20171025031554-e3534c89ef96
 	gitea.com/lunny/levelqueue v0.4.2-0.20230414023320-3c0159fe0fe4
-	gitea.dev/actionslib v1.2.1
+	gitea.dev/actionslib v1.3.0
 	gitea.dev/sdk v1.2.0
 	github.com/42wim/httpsig v1.2.4
 	github.com/42wim/sshsig v0.0.0-20260317195500-b9f38cf0d432
@@ -135,7 +135,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/blevesearch/zapx/v15 v15.4.3 // indirect
 	github.com/blevesearch/zapx/v16 v16.3.4 // indirect
 	github.com/blevesearch/zapx/v17 v17.2.3 // indirect
-	github.com/bmatcuk/doublestar/v4 v4.10.0 // indirect
+	github.com/bmatcuk/doublestar/v4 v4.10.2 // indirect
 	github.com/bodgit/plumbing v1.3.0 // indirect
 	github.com/bodgit/sevenzip v1.6.4 // indirect
 	github.com/bodgit/windows v1.0.1 // indirect