refactor: use modernc sqlite driver as default (#37562)

The mattn driver is still kept, can be enabled by
TAGS="sqlite_mattn sqlite_unlock_notify"

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Co-authored-by: TheFox0x7 <thefox0x7@gmail.com>

.github/workflows/pull-compliance.yml

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@ jobs:
       - run: make deps-backend deps-tools
       - run: make lint-backend
         env:
-          TAGS: bindata sqlite sqlite_unlock_notify
+          TAGS: bindata
 
   lint-on-demand:
     needs: files-changed
@@ -82,7 +82,7 @@ jobs:
       - run: make deps-backend deps-tools
       - run: make lint-go-windows
         env:
-          TAGS: bindata sqlite sqlite_unlock_notify
+          TAGS: bindata
           GOOS: windows
           GOARCH: amd64
 
@@ -104,7 +104,7 @@ jobs:
       - run: make deps-backend deps-tools
       - run: make lint-go
         env:
-          TAGS: bindata gogit sqlite sqlite_unlock_notify
+          TAGS: bindata gogit
 
   checks-backend:
     if: needs.files-changed.outputs.backend == 'true' || needs.files-changed.outputs.actions == 'true'