.github/workflows: prebuilt integration test artifacts (#2954)

This PR restructures the integration tests and prebuilds all common assets used in all tests:

Headscale and Tailscale HEAD image
hi binary that is used to run tests
go cache is warmed up for compilation of the test
This essentially means we spend 6-10 minutes building assets before any tests starts, when that is done, all tests can just sprint through.

It looks like we are saving 3-9 minutes per test, and since we are limited to running max 20 concurrent tests across the repo, that means we had a lot of double work.

There is currently 113 checks, so we have to do five runs of 20, and the saving should be quite noticeable! I think the "worst case" saving would be 20+min and "best case" probably towards an hour.

.github/workflows/docs-deploy.yml

@@ -21,15 +21,15 @@ jobs:
     runs-on: ubuntu-latest
     steps:
       - name: Checkout repository
-        uses: actions/checkout@11bd71901bbe5b1630ceea73d27597364c9af683 # v4.2.2
+        uses: actions/checkout@8e8c483db84b4bee98b60c0593521ed34d9990e8 # v6.0.1
         with:
           fetch-depth: 0
       - name: Install python
-        uses: actions/setup-python@a26af69be951a213d495a4c3e4e4022e16d87065 # v5.6.0
+        uses: actions/setup-python@83679a892e2d95755f2dac6acb0bfd1e9ac5d548 # v6.1.0
         with:
           python-version: 3.x
       - name: Setup cache
-        uses: actions/cache@5a3ec84eff668545956fd18022155c47e93e2684 # v4.2.3
+        uses: actions/cache@a7833574556fa59680c1b7cb190c1735db73ebf0 # v5.0.0
         with:
           key: ${{ github.ref }}
           path: .cache