Add missing typed options from the upstream nixpkgs module:
- configFile: read-only option exposing the generated config path
for composability with other NixOS modules
- dns.split: split DNS configuration with proper type checking
- dns.extra_records: typed submodule with name/type/value validation
Sync descriptions and assertions with upstream:
- Use Tailscale doc link for override_local_dns description
- Remove redundant requirement note from nameservers.global
- Match upstream assertion message wording and expression style
Update systemd script to reference cfg.configFile instead of a
local let-binding, matching the upstream pattern.
