With a via grant in the policy, ViaRoutesForPeer still resolved every
grant's sources and destinations up front. Non-via grants are only read
once a via grant has matched the peer, which is rare (the peer must
advertise a covered route), and destinations only for grants whose
sources match the viewer. Resolve each grant on first use instead.
BenchmarkViaRoutesForPeer, mean per peer (Apple M3 Pro):
policy nodes before after
via-mixed 100 9.5us 2.1us
via-mixed 1000 69.0us 11.6us
via 1000 8.1us 8.6us