In compileACLWithAutogroupSelf, when a group contains a non-existent
user, Group.Resolve() returns a partial IPSet (with IPs from valid
users) alongside an error. The code was discarding the entire result
via `continue`, losing valid IPs. The non-autogroup-self path
(compileFilterRules) already handles this correctly by logging the
error and using the IPSet if non-empty.
Remove the `continue` on error for both source and destination
resolution, matching the existing behavior in compileFilterRules.
Also reorder the IsTagged check before User().ID() comparison
in the same-user node filter to prevent nil dereference on tagged
nodes that have no User set.
Fixes#2990